On my latest project you will find a song that I wrote entitled "Found a Little Spot". Please don't let your imagination run away with you in the wrong direction. The first thing that every man should know is that "the spot" for a woman is more than sexual. I know the first thought that comes into folks minds when they hear the hook on this song it is referring to the sexual spot. You know the one that most men don't have a clue about anyway. Every man should know that the spot is different based upon where the need is. For some women the spot may be security, for others it may be closeness. The spot can be whatever is needed to make that woman feel safe, confident and comfortable. For some it may be letting her know she is important to you. For others it may be a reassurance that she is the only woman in the world for you. Now don't get me wrong, within the sacred confines of marriage a man still needs to find that romantic, passionate "spot" that will inevitably make his baby "yell, scream, and shout". Keeping in mind that there is more to romance than just the sexual act itself. Find the spot through talking, touching, hearing and listening. Communication is fundamental and key to maintaining a healthy relationship sexual and otherwise. Most couples can connect the time they stopped relating with the time they stopped communicating. We get distracted by the pressures of life and become estranged from one another. All of a sudden life just becomes about maintaining and increasing. We get on a merry-go-round of trying to "make it" and begin to sterilize our own relationships. I encourage you today to take the time to talk to one another, reconnect the dots. Take the time to stop...and smell the flowers together, you will be glad that you did.